About Happy Sex

20 ways to improve sexual pleasure and increase excitement

Here are 20 ways to improve sexual pleasure and increase excitement:

  1. Explore your body: Take time to explore your own body and discover what feels good.
  2. Communicate with your partner: Talk openly with your partner about what you both enjoy sexually, and ask for what you want.
  3. Experiment with different positions: Try out different sexual positions to see what works best for you and your partner.
  4. Use lubrication: Lubricant can make sex more comfortable and pleasurable for both partners.
  5. Use sex toys: Incorporating sex toys can add a new level of excitement to your sex life.
  6. Practice mindfulness: Focus on your sensations in the moment rather than distracting thoughts or worries.
  7. Practice relaxation techniques: Relaxation techniques such as deep breathing or meditation can help reduce stress and increase pleasure during sex.
  8. Incorporate foreplay: Spend time on foreplay, including kissing, touching, and oral sex, to build up arousal and increase pleasure.
  9. Try new things: Experiment with new sexual experiences, such as role-playing or bondage.
  10. Set the mood: Create a sensual atmosphere with candles, music, and other romantic touches.
  11. Explore erogenous zones: Discover your and your partner’s erogenous zones and focus on stimulating them.
  12. Build anticipation: Send sexy texts or leave notes for your partner throughout the day to build anticipation for later.
  13. Use different senses: Incorporate a variety of sensory experiences, such as taste, smell, and touch, to enhance pleasure.
  14. Keep intimacy alive outside of the bedroom: Spend quality time together outside of the bedroom to maintain emotional intimacy.
  15. Practice safe sex: Practicing safe sex can help reduce anxiety and allow both partners to fully enjoy the experience.
  16. Take breaks: If you feel yourself losing momentum, take a break to refocus and regroup.
  17. Try different speeds: Experiment with different tempos and speeds to find what works best for both partners.
  18. Focus on the journey, not just the destination: Enjoy the entire sexual experience, including foreplay and afterglow, rather than just focusing on orgasm.
  19. Don’t be afraid to laugh: Sex can be a fun and playful experience, so don’t be afraid to laugh or be silly with your partner.
  20. Practice self-care: Take care of your physical and emotional health to improve overall satisfaction during sex.

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